a complaint.. or three

one of my biggest pet peeves
is when people expect other people to act, write, or think a certain way.

first of all: 
this post is directed to nobody in particular.
or everybody. 
you choose.
i will write about something,
and then someone will think, 
"omg. that is about me. she hates me. what did i do?" 
okay, y'all.
a few years ago, i learned confrontation.
if i have a problem with you
i will straight up tell you.
so that we can solve it.
just because i write about something
doesn't mean i am aiming it at somebody.
please let me write what i feel.
if you don't like it, don't read it.
it's actually extremely simple.
i am not a mean person.
i have a good heart.
i believe in telling a person when they are bothering me...
so that they know,
can fix their 'issue' 
and move on with their lives.
it's much easier that way.

i loathe blogger posts
 complaining about how bloggers write.
people who bash on bloggers who do link-ups,
or do things to get more followers,
or something they disagree with.
well WAAAHH! 
{i don't write to get more followers.}
but who cares if people do? 
it is their blog.
and they should do whatever makes them happy.

i hate when people leave the cupboards open.
just shut em.
i hate it.
i hate the look of it.
and mr. schroeder does it sometimes just to get a rise out of me.
i can't help but laugh.

i am not grumpy today.
i'm giddy.
and happy.
and funny.
just in case you read this post with the wrong tone of voice. 


  1. haha with you on the cubbords open, thats DRIVES ME INSANE! how hard is to shut them??

  2. I had to chuckle when I read this because I feel the same way...and because I was picturing you saying, "Well WAAAAAH!" And it was pretty funny in my head. :)

  3. I hate when you close the cupboard but it won't STAY. (pointless complaints!)

  4. I loved your random third complaint!

  5. Ha ha. Love this. Preach it, girl.
    Complaining about someone else's blog seems like a down-right waste of time. I mean, WHO cares? And I feel ya on the cupboards, man. And the shower curtain. Close that shizz up! :)

  6. LOL @ the open cupboards! I always leave the plate cupboards open while I'm putting away dishes from the dishwasher and my boyfriend always closes them when I look away.

    I'm having a giveaway on my blog if you're interested :)

  7. I love this. we are so much a like t's crazy

  8. I'm with you. It bothers me SO much when people don't confront me with problems they're having!

    Also, my cupboard door just won't close. I have tried everything. It's driving me absolutely insane. I'm glad to know someone understands my pain.

  9. On point #2, I'm with you for the most part. Who cares what other people do? If you don't like what someone's writing, don't follow them. Or skip over the posts you don't care about. No need to complain.


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