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giving more than the giver

did any of you have the opportunity to watch 
i watched blips. in and out of wrestle fights with mr. schroeder.
president uchtdorf said something that made me think twice. or three times.
maybe more.
every christmas, 
i am truly excited to see how excited my family and friends are. 
i love to spoil them. 
i always try and let them know that my gift came from the heart,
took a lot of thinking,
& spoil them silly. 
last night, 
uchtdorf said this: 
"sometimes people even get to the point where they can't receive a gift or,
for that matter,
even a compliment without embarrassment or feelings of indebtedness. 
they mistakenly think that the only acceptable way to respond to receiving a gift 
is by giving back something of even greater value."

it's not that i am ungrateful when i receive a gift.
but i most definitely immediately think i need to get them something as well. 
for example: we have a family friend who is the sweetest lady ever. 
she is constantly outdoing everyone else. 
she gives the nicest gifts. 
she doesn't have much.
but she gives greater.
mr. schroeder and i want to buy her an expensive photo for christmas.
i am always wanting to spoil her. why? 
because she is always spoiling everyone else. 


the quote above might mean something completely different to someone else.
but this Christmas season,
i am going to focus more on what truly matters, 
the meaningful gifts,
not the costs or size. 

6 comments

  1. what tends to help me is normally make gifts. i know it sounds lame, but it just takes more effort, can be cheaper, but people love it. i love spoiling people too, i just can't help it, but i just love giving gifts, probably because im a christmas baby :)

    K

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  2. i love this post! we watched it last night too, and that is such a true thought...giving of ourselves is more important than money or items! xo

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  3. That's so true. When I was buying presents this year, I just bought stuff that reminded me of whoever is in my list! :)

    xo,
    janmloves.blogspot.com

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  4. My aunt is the same way as the lady you mentioned..she doesn't have a lot of money, but she buys gifts for EVERYONE. She has such a huge heart and it's just something she enjoys. I agree with you though, it's not about the cost, it's the thought that counts. Cheap or expensive, I'm sure she'll love whatever you get her!!

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  5. So I loved this talk, and today, while I was at the store (yes, up and moving!) it was going through my head as I kept saying "no, that's not good enough." or "no, that's the same thing I gave last year." I think I need to re-listen to it and get the message pounded in my head. Thanks for posting about this, AND for being so awesome!!

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  6. We are doing the same thing this year. Lots of homemade, from the heart gifts. I'm excited to share them with my friends and family. I wanted this year to be about showing our love and appreciation for our family, not about who can buy the most expensive gift!

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